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Love Warps the Mind a Little
John Dufresne
Top 10 Best Quotes
“You can't possibly conduct a proper affair without a lot of deliberating, scheming, speculating, and conniving. It's a delicate balance where the excitement must equal the guilt and sex must be as bright as the future you gamble.”
“She knows what it's like to love someone who cannot love you back. Someone who needs you, holds you, yes, but someone who will never know that love is the knife in your heart.”
“Love is anticipation and memory, uncertainty and longing. It’s unreasonable, of course. Nothing begins with so much excitement and hope and pleasure as love, except maybe writing a story. And nothing fails as often, except writing stories. And like a story, love must be troubled to be interesting.”
“I loved her for what I couldn't understand about her. Love searches for the mystery in the beloved, seeks the unknowable.”
“You lose a wallet or keys or something and you notice in a second, but your life can go missing and you don't even know it.”
“Pleasure is, after all, a luxury. It's love that's essential.”
“I told her how I thought you could always revise your life, how you could work and work on it, finesse the details, see if what you're saying is what you wanted to be saying.”
“Love is always a surprise and you never get it right.”
“You make allowances for your family. They may not seem normal to the world but they're normal to you because you've been dealing with them all your life.”
“It wasn't that I wanted to know her now. I wanted to have already known her. I wanted her fears and her desires to have shaped my life. I know this is not love, of course. What it is is a queer feeling of nostalgia for an impossible future, for what can never be. That's fantasy. Love is different.”
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